Closer to Love: How to Attract the Right Relationships and Deepen Your Connections

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The first step is to build a close relationship with ourselves. Tools to achieve this includes l journaling, spritual, physical, and mental self-care, maintaining hobbies/interests and self-regulation. No relationship is always glamorous, conflicts are everywhere. But I did highlight a few things that I found particularly helpful and a few things that I found not so helpful. I found the writer wanted us to like certain phrases he said and he made this very clear by writing it in bold. I found most of the things I took away from this book were sandwiched in between the stuff he wanted me to like. Closer to Love will empower you to cultivate mature, meaningful relationships, overcome fears, expectations and insecurities, develop clarity around who you really are and understand what kind of relationships you want to build.

Gândește-te la ceea ce îi face plăcere partenerului tău și întreabă-te dacă tu hrănești aceste nevoi sau le ignori.” When you start a new relationship, no doubt you are on a high. You feel great about yourself because you are loved, admired, appreciated, and wanted. Your self-worth rises to new levels because someone loves you. It's all music and roses. When the relationship ends, you take a nosedive, experiencing feelings of failure and self-doubt, thinking there's something wrong with you, or that you're not 'good enough'. That's a terrible penance to pay, and one we inflict on ourselves without mercy. It's funny how, when we are in love, our attention shifts fully to the other person as they become the center of our world. On the other hand, after a painful breakup, we turn in on ourselves and over-obsess on our failures. People want to know why they keep attracting the same dysfunctional relationships and why the cycles keep repeating. Those in relationships usually want to know how to deepen the love that they have with their partner and how to rekindle the flame. The most common question is ‘should I give up on the relationship?’ What advice would you give to someone who is making that decision?Speaking from his personal experiences of healing from heartbreak and finding lasting love, Vex shares practical advice and thought-provoking insights to help you: Vex will carry you into a whole new understanding about what human love can be and how living it will not only electrify your life but raise our world too.' A headline speaker at Fearne Cotton’s Happy Place Festival this summer, Vex talks to metro.co.uk about love and happiness: What are the most common love problems that people struggle with?

There were so many moments in this book that brought tears because it was so resonating and provided a life-altering perspective. I never cried to a non-fiction book before (that was a first 😅). But as I was reading it, it felt like therapy, as if I needed these reminders and validations. These perspectives and words needed to be taken in. Fă-ți partenerul să înțeleagă că ești alături de el când se străduiește să-și atingă visurile. Dacă asta înseamnă să conduci trei ore pentru a-l duce la un turneu de squash sau să îl ajuți să aleagă o nouă ținută pentru un interviu important, fii acolo pentru el. Participă la îndeplinirea visurilor sale și arată-i că își poate întinde aripile fără teama de a te pierde. Dacă simți că te suprasoliciți, discută cu partenerul tău despre acest lucru. Găsiți modalități de a fi flexibili cu planurile voastre, conveniți asupra unor compromisuri, astfel încât să nu riști să îți sacrifice propriile visuri pentru a le îndeplini pe ale lui.” This book, in contrast to many others of its type, successfully strikes a balance between a spiritual and a psychological understanding of love. With the author’s insight and counsel condensed into a motivating and well-written book, I discovered a lot of new things. This is a straightforward, honest book that examines how partners might behave in relationships. It offers advice on how to handle problems and disagreements as well as ways to analyze your past, spot trends in the relationships you’ve attracted, and boost your attractiveness in the future.I have never been in a romantic relationship but have read a lot about romance and love in books. My friends who were/are in a relationship used to share with me how they feel and what kind of problems they face in a relationship. And after all of it, I believed that relationships are complex and a 24/7 job where you have to perform your best. However, Vex’s new book, Closer to Love; How to Attract The Right Relationships And Deepen Your Connections is here to help us build happier relationships that feel like magic. There are so many people like me who watch a good romantic movie or see couples posting cute-hot pictures on social media and we start wishing for the same. We think if someone could love us so deeply, our life will change. If you have a habit of ignoring yourself and not giving yourself enough love, no relationship can fulfill your soul, and no person, no matter how perfect, can make you feel loved. The core message in the book is that the best relationships are built when we build the relationship with ourselves first,’ he says.