Where Did I Go Wrong

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My 35 yr old daughter, met, got married and move to a new state with her husband & my Grandaughter in less than 1 yr. She gave up the stability of family living near by and state assistance. She was a single mom for 9 yrs and doing all the right things to get off state assistance.

I have a 19 year old daughter who has a learning disability. She never went through that preteen or early teen age stage where she was rude and uncontrollable. She feeds off suggestions and will seek suggestions from others. It use to be me and More my family but she met a 21 at the time but was really 23 boy who is the worse possible person any girl should date. His mom is rude and disrespectful. His oldest brother is serving a life long sentence. The boyfriend has been doing drugs since high school and I'm not sure how but this boys younger sister has passed. According to my daughters boyfriend mother I should be happy that my daughter is dating this college drop out drug addict who is 23 and stills live home with mommy and not to mention within the past year he has had 7 jobs. My daughter wanted to be an RN but she first had to finish high school. I had to pull her out and homeschool because she went from straight A's to straight F's. She was doing so good until she met this boy. She rather work in a factory. She's lying and doing drugs. She is now rude and disrespectful. She tells her 13 year old sister things that are not appropriate. This all happened over night. No warning at all. Now everything I saw is wrong but yet she will listen to trashy people. The boy told her that she was to fat. She's 5'9 and was weighing 165. Curves in places women died for. Now she's she skinny she flat all over. They are planning her life and she allows it. When do I stop trying to help. They are brainwashing her. When holding conversation with her anyone can tell that she's not mentally 19 but maybe 15 or 16. I even financially cut her off. It's painful to watch her hot glue her shoes together or to have to patch up holes in her clothes yet she rather stay with this boy. The Kindle edition was nice and clean, no funny coding or weird stuff. The Audible.com edition was 8 hours, and 51 minutes long, published by, The Literary Publishing Group, and again the narrator was Hillary Hawkins.They all seem to have ADHD in common. Those with kids who are not, have perhaps not been diagnosed yet? I'm a single parent. I managed to get my BSBM and my Cosmetology license. I have work so many jobs to the point I felt like I was zombie. But I am tired, just went through a painful divorce, ridding myself of an abusive husband. Recently, I bought me a 2 seater and a 2 bedroom condo. I am living alone for the 1st time ever in my life and I have peace. I am taking tennis and dance lessons and filling my days up with things that I enjoy. I have stpoppopped attending church, just feel like heaven let me down. But I feel torn, although I am doing what is best for my sanity - is it best for my family as a whole. Meaning, cutting off the financial strings, the midnight bail out calls, the my home being a revolving door, the smart mouth talking and the need to please them ALL.

I WILL NOT BE GIVING MY OPINIONS ON THIS BOOK, BECAUSE ITS NOT MY RIGHT TO SAY ANYTHING. ALL THE INVESTIGATIONS AND ALL HAVE BEEN DONE. THE CONVICT IS DEAD. WE CAN DO NOTHING BUT ACCEPT WHATEVER HAPPENED. BUT, I WILL DEFINITELY TELL YOU EVERYTHING THAT THE BOOK HAS DISCUSSED ABOUT JEFFREY. So the day before her 18th birthday she decided she was leaving. She made arrangements to live with a friend from school and her parents. It absolutely killed me. Well that lasted a couple months and while gone she met a guy and decided to get married after knowing him fo 6 weeks. He was the same age as her. They weren't going to live together til after graduating. She called us and asked to come home and we let her. She'd be leaving for school shortly anyway. I always believed the lie that the theory of evolution is truth, that we all came from the slime and when we died that was it. So the whole theory cheapens life. And I started reading books that show how evolution is a complete lie. I’ve since come to believe that the Lord Jesus Christ is the true Creator.

When serial killers are apprehended, we hear all about their crimes and the horrible acts they committed. And to a lesser extent, we are get a sense of the victims and their families, but very rarely do we ever hear from the family members of the killers and what they must go through as the When I found out my husband was doing drugs (and he would not get help, go to rehab or marriage counseling, or try to stop) I filed for divorce. The curiosity for the two of us was why should the concentration be the same?” Pearman says. “Above this growing wheat crop – and on the top of a mountain in Hawaii. Two hemispheres that are totally different. Why should that be the case?”

Dahmer, Lionel (1994). A Father's Story. Internet Archive. New York: W. Morrow & Co. p.16. ISBN 978-0-688-12156-3. Jeff intrigues me, because, the love that Lionel felt towards his son was highly relatable to me, do not take this the wrong way, I am NOT a murderer. When I point out, calmly, what he does wrong, and how he can make it right, he does not believe that that is my intention. He keeps accusing me of manipulating him. I am also a teacher, and he says he doesn't know how my students even like me because I am terrible with kids, and I should have never had any. (meanwhile, most of my students love my class, and I am excellent with kids - not perfect, but really great with them). So why can't I be good with my own kid?

Lionel Dahmer's memoir about fatherhood and Jeffrey's childhood has helped me a lot to understand myself, my childhood, and my personality better once again. I know that it may sound odd, or creepy to say that one can relate to a person like Jeffrey Dahmer. It is very hard for most people to understand why would someone relate to such a personality, but we're all different in the end. Rather than having developed a natural fatherhood, I had learned, as if by rote, what a father should do.

Families of 2 Victims Sue Dahmer's Father over Book". Orlando Sentinel. March 5, 1994. Archived from the original on October 1, 2019 . Retrieved November 7, 2022. I can identify with all of you. My adult kids (30 & 28) seemed to be very normal, responsible, respectful adults. My son struggled in school with ADHD, but he always passed his grades with C’s or higher. I am totally understanding your situation. From "I remember dancing with my kids, outings..etc" to being shunned, I am with you all the way. I have been going through this same situation you have for 2years almost. It is so difficult to understand, especially when shunned because we have to make up our own stories to figure out why, and our stories are likely inaccurate. Every day my heart is broken a little more but now I am beginning to despise them because I have had to draw my own conclusions due to being shunned and before that verbally abused by all of them. People I have met in my life adore me for my love and compassion - do you find that? What it tells me is that I am a good person but I have kids who are in their 30's and are mature enough to make their own decisions. If they shunned me, so I shun them. I will never know my 3 grandchildren but I have to believe they would be just as callous as their parents, just so I can get through this torture. I am so close to telling people I have no kids. The kids I have are not worth my heartbreak so to repair my heart and my psyche I have no kids. My life is being directed in a way that excludes them so I plan to follow that path and see what I get out of it. I am so sure it will be so much better than the junction I currently hover at. You added to the population and are a success. A car is an asset that goes to zero. People where I live no longer waste their money on cars. It’s a lifestyle choice.I wanted to read this book because all 8 billion people live the same life Jeff did. then why was he the way he was. WHY!? In the early sections of this book, I was perturbed by the author's use of "of course". For example: "My father, of course, did not know anything of my inner life." Why "of course"? In that same paragraph, discussing his own early fantasies around sex, he writes: "These are the sorts of things, of course, that fathers rarely know about their growing sons." But, I believe that you all can relate to it, at least the initial few chapters, they were very day-to-day life events that me and you usually go through. Abuse of ANY kind? I want to clarify the rumors that no, he wasn't abused by his dad. They hardly talked.